Thursday, September 11, 2008

weird ass s**t people doing now

Well . . . well, that has been a word used awfully lot recently.
Don't know why is it that people I meet never quite seem to get what they want . . . (and besides, who says I've got a label stuck to my forehead reading: "hey, talk to me - i know i met you only 5 minutes ago, but please do reveal all your deepest secrets to me" - i have not noticed that particular label ever being there)
People should try and keep their inmost thought to themselves, otherwise they'll always wonder why people use their words against themselves. There's no reason, no matter how much you like the other person, to start unravelling ALL your views and ideas the first time you see the person.
Another thing - why can't people be honest? To themselves and to others. . . Frankly, I'm sick and tired of it - people lying to themselves . . . why ??? Please stop saying - I'm fat, ugly, stupid or just not good enough. It's bad if it's done for some other person (not good enough for him/her), but it's even worse if you lie to yourself - you can't imagine how much others hate that . . . And there are two ways on doing this - you either berate yourself or think too much of yourself - either: "there's so much wrong me, I'm no good" or "I'm the best there ever was" - none of those work.

Finally . . . what I meant to say - we're all different, we ALL have faults and problems. It's not about how we can hide them or disguise them - it's about how we manage WITH them. I'm not saying people shouldn't try and improve themselves, no - it's OK to improve. But it is not OK to complain or boast too much.

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